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Donating blood: a positive or negative experience?

29 Jul

It’s summertime and at my job I’ve gotten several press releases stressing the importance of donating blood now because of a decline in donations due to family vacations and busier schedules. I thought, “Now is the time I’m going to try that, and while I’m at it I’ll make it into a positive, uplifting story for the readers of my newspaper.”

I was super excited about this. I told everyone I was going to donate blood for the first time. I even had the opening line for this blog written and knew exactly what I was going to say about my experience. I was pumped.Blood Did you know

And then I was pumped literally and the experience deflated to far less than excitement. I didn’t anticipate that my donation wouldn’t be acceptable, that they would have to discard it.

Here’s what happened:

I got to the blood donation site, a Catholic church in Benton. I told the proper authorities at the site what my mission was: first time blood donation and publicity. They were thrilled. I checked in, read the lengthy packet on the risks, reasons why a donation won’t be accepted and what to expect throughout the process. I read the whole thing. Well, maybe only 90 percent of the words (it’s weird having someone watch you read a document). Then I moved to a new seating area to alert the phlebotomists that I was ready for my health history and physical.

I didn’t have to wait long and pretty soon I was answering questions and getting my finger pricked to test for iron. Everything was going smoothly. I was in great shape for making a donation, and my O- blood type meant my donation was extra special (universal blood donor, so my blood could be given to anyone in need).

It was finally my turn. I told them which arm I’d like used, mainly so I could still hold my camera and document the entire process. My veins disagreed. I guess I had better veins in the other arm, so they wanted to use that one. Okay. I’ll do what I have to.

They took a test tube, maybe more, I really don’t remember since I wasn’t looking. If I don’t look at the needle, I don’t feel it as much. Then the bag was hooked up and I was off, squeezing the little ball to keep the blood pumping.

Unfortunately, when I was stuck with the needle, my vein bruised and it started clotting before my full donation was accomplished. I was told that since I only donated 420 of the 470 ml of blood, my donation would be too thin with the amount of blood thinner already in the bag. Another phlebotomist wiggled the needle around for a while to see if it would start flowing again, but that, of course, was painful and didn’t work.

My heart sank and my emotions went out of control. I started to feel nauseous and dizzy, which only made things worse. Before I knew it I was lying on my side with a cold cloth over my forehead and people running to grab me a bucket. I assured them it was nothing that bad. But, the pampering meant I was the center of attention, which was exactly what I didn’t want. I’m a journalist, I’m used to being the observer, not the one everyone is watching.

I took my bandaged arm over to the recovery area and couldn’t even enjoy the cookies and strawberry sundae. At this point I was the only donor left in the place and all eyes were on me. I couldn’t control my crying, especially with all of the comforting words from the volunteers. I kept telling them I didn’t know why I was crying. I just needed to be left alone, but after my symptoms following the needle removal, that wasn’t going to happen.

My arm had quite the bruise. And it got bigger and more colorful every day. After a week it stopped growing and started disappearing. It was a long week of explaining my situation, though.

Looking back, I was just upset from having my donation refused, and for reasons out of my control. I thought it was going to be a positive experience, that I’d want to be a regular donor, but now I’m unsure that I want to try again. I know, I know, it’ll be better next time, don’t give up. Still… It took me this long to decide to donate and then the pain and bruising was all for nothing.

While this isn’t a travel topic, I wanted to include it here because you can donate blood from almost anywhere. And, I found out that if you have traveled to certain countries in the last few years they may not want you to donate because of possible exposure to certain things.

 

Planning a vacation

15 Jul

It’s not the easiest thing to do, but planning a vacation can be done without too much stress. It takes a little time and patience.

The Mississippi River at Savannah, Ill.

The Mississippi River at Savannah, Ill.

Start with research

Booking a trip, whether it’s overseas or to a campground in your hometown, requires some research to start. Pick some dates, but keep them flexible. Sometimes airfare is cheaper on certain days of the week, so leaving on a Tuesday may save you a little spending money for the rest of your trip. Have an idea of where you want to go. Looking for a warm beach or just a mirror-like lake to dip your toes in? There are sites out there to help you narrow your search. I like applevacations.com, cheapcarribean.com, Travelocity.com and tripadvisor.com.

Home away from homeExplore Dream Discover MT Vertical

You should look up places to stay and compare prices with the other venues. If you’re looking at campsites, make sure you know if you need water or electric hook-ups, as these things cost more. If you want a hotel, look into what is located nearby; a popular night club might not make the best neighbor for a good night’s sleep, although it could be a lot of fun if you’re a night owl looking for a party scene. When you decide to book your stay, double-check the dates you’ll be there and the occupancy requirements for the site or room; some places charge extra per person staying.

Recreation

Next, you’ll want to have a few options of things to do. I don’t recommend trying to plan out your entire vacation, but having some ideas as well as their cost, timeline and availability will help. I generally print out a list that includes the type of activity it is, where it’s located (a physical address I can type into the GPS for directions), a phone number and/or e-mail address, cost involved per person and hours of operation.

For a three-night stay I’ll have a list of approximately six things we can do in that area. I like to include indoor as well as outdoor activities; I’m an outdoor enthusiast, but Mother Nature isn’t always on my side, so having indoor options is nice. Usually we’re lucky if we make it to one attraction a day. It’s a vacation, after all… there has to be some relaxing going on.

A good tip for this is to look at the official website for your location. I’m planning a little get-away to Door County right now and their official website (doorcounty.com) is by far the best resource. They have it broken down by categories and list all of the details you would need.

We all have to eat

I like to look up the dining options ahead of time and try to make it to one local establishment each day. Fast food can suffice while running around during the day, trying to cram as much into my time off of work as possible, but a nice sit-down meal can make the whole trip worth it. Look for good reviews, check out their menu ahead of time and know if you’ll need reservations.

Usually every little community has a restaurant known by the locals as THE place to go. I heard of one such place when I was planning a trip to Grand Bahamas Island. We made sure to stop by Pier One, a seafood restaurant where they feed the sharks over the deck railing (site located here: http://www.pieronebahamas.com/). It was one of the most memorable parts of my trip, and I can’t wait to get back there to experience it all over again.

Logistics

This is the part I love, and I’m not entirely sure why. I guess I just really love planning and organizing. When I’m researching a vacation, I need to know how much everything is going to cost me. I’m not made of money. I don’t have a sugar daddy to fund my travels. I have to provide for myself.

First, I decide on transportation. Am I driving, flying or catching a train or bus? For the international destinations, I recommend flying. Just state-hopping around the U.S., sometimes it’s better financially to drive, plus you get to see some great sites that aren’t available to you in the airport terminal. Sight-seeing is part of the vacation adventure.

When I’ve decided on my mode of transportation, I’ll figure the cost one of two ways: A) look online for ticket prices and compare by when it would work best for my schedule. Sure, the red-eye flights are cheaper, but if I’m visiting family, I really don’t want to arrive while they’re sleeping. B) figure the miles to your destination and back (don’t forget that you need to make it back home, too), determine the national average gas price (because it may not be the same as in your local community), know the miles per gallon for your vehicle and do some simple math to establish how much it will cost to drive your vehicle to your destination. Typically, I type in the destination and any waypoints (planned stops) one-way, double it for the return trip, and add some miles for any excursions once I get to my destination (this should be easily researchable, too). Then I take the total number of miles, divide by the miles per gallon of my vehicle and multiply that answer by the cost of gas for a total cost of fuel for your trip. For example: if I were traveling 300 miles for my trip in a vehicle that gets 30 miles to the gallon and gas is $2.50 a gallon, my math would look like 300 miles / 30 mpg = 10 gallons of gas I’ll need and 10 gallons x $2.50 = $25, so my gas would cost me approximately $25.

Well, that was transportation. I generally also tally up the cost of where I’m staying, must-go activities and food (aim for a general allowance per person of $10 for breakfast, $12 for lunch and $15 for supper, so $37/day per person; I realize this is high, but when you’re on vacation, you tend to think “I can splurge, I’m on vacation…”). I also make a list of the cost of alternate activities so I know the high end as well as the low end of my trip expense.

Nothing ventured is nothing gained...  Gold Rock Beach, Grand Bahamas Island, Bahamas

Nothing ventured is nothing gained…
Gold Rock Beach, Grand Bahamas Island, Bahamas

Add up all of those numbers and you have an idea of how much your trip will cost. Then you can add or subtract days to make it affordable or fit in everything you want to do.

Summary

-Choose your dates

-Pick a location

-Select your mode of transportation

-Research options for activities, dining

-Know your budget

-Book it

-Enjoy